20 Mei 2011

Know*Understand*Believe


Assalamualaikum W.B.T

Alhamdulillah,all praises to Allah,still giving me opportunity to write in this blog.Hopefully sharing some kinds of beneficial knowledge with you guys(and girls).This time I would like to bring one story,narrated by one of my lecturer.It's all about what's actually Know?Understand?Belief?

"Hey Mamat,i'm terrified...just now there's one weird guy chopping his hand,and out of blue he manage to reconnect his hand without any evidence of being chopped before!!!"Said Atan."Where is it?"...."In front of the new mall in the town"..."Come on,let's go there,heh!like I want to trust you"

By now,Mamat already KNOW.

At the mall....."I told you,believe it now?"."Yeah,he did cut his hand,but???"..."What else?,you'd see it with your own eyes"

By now,Mamat UNDERSTAND.

"I Won't believe it till I try it for myself"...."Whoah!!!are you crazy???Cutting your own hand?"
"Yeah,If he claim he can do that...he suppose to be able to do it on anyone,not only to himself'"..."I might say he is cheating, unless He chop my hand!"

By now,Mamat is trying to BELIEVE

Mamat insist that weird man to chop his hand...~~~~~~~~~"Argh!!!!...Yeap,now I believe he's lying"

*Oppss...sorry,sad ending~~~

That's how it work in Islam.Muslim nowadays had know Islam obviously.(It means,Muslim know the background of Islam,the pillars of Islam,The oneness of God).Understand Islam Most(Most of Muslim understand their duty as Muslim,pray,fasting,doing good deeds).But,do we really belief in ISLAM???How can we believe in Islam as we've never sacrifice anything for Islam???...Mamat do sacrifice his hand to test his believe toward the weird man(though it's not worth it)...But in Islam,it's totally worth it.But you won't feel it when you never ever want to sacrifice.

Sacrifice your TIME for Islam,sacrifice your PHYSICAL STRENGTH for Islam,sacrifice your THINKING for Islam,and sacrifice your LIFE for Islam.It's a sweet feeling of being able to sacrifice anything for Islam when we believe in Islam...I pray for all of us,including me myself to be able to taste that sweetness...InsyaAllah.

Akhirulkalam

17 Mei 2011

pesanan dari Imam Ghazali


Assalamualaikum W.B.T

Dicatat oleh Imam Al-Ghazali

Jangan engkau kahwini wanita yang enam iaitu wanita ...yang Ananah, yang Mananah, dan yang Hananah, dan jangan engkau kahwini yang Hadaqah, yang Baraqah dan yang Syadaqah.”

1) Wanita Ananah :
Banyak mengeluh & mengadu dan tiap saat memperalatkan sakit atau buat-buat sakit.


2) Wanita Mananah :
Suka membangkit-bangkit terhadap suami. Wanita ini sering menyatakan, “Aku membuat itu keranamu.”

3) Wanita Hananah :
Menyatakan kasih sayangnya kepada suaminya yang lain, yang dikahwininya sebelum ini atau kepada anaknya dari suami yang lain.

4) Wanita Hadaqah :
Melemparkan pandangan dan matanya pada tiap sesuatu, lalu menyatakan keinginannya untuk memiliki barang itu dan memaksa suaminya untuk membelinya.

5) Wanita Baraqah :
Ada 2 makna, pertama yang sepanjang hari mengilatkan dan menghias mukanya, kedua dia marah ketika makan dan tidak mahu makan kecuali sendirian dan diasingkan bahagiannya.

6) Wanita Syadaqah :
Banyak cakap tidak menentu lagi bising.

04 Mei 2011

Punctuality!!!


Assalamualaikum W.B.T

Alhamdulillah,praise be to The most gracious and merciful.This time,I would to share with you guys regarding one content of my recent lecture.Yes,Punctuality...All students being stress to come to class on time,no doubt he is serious this time.But,that's not what the main thing for me to wonder about right now.Let us go into the topic now...

When it has become like this,the most obvious 'new situation' we might observe is before class.People rushing to the toilet to get ready for class.The one waiting for their turn shouting for their right...afraid of being late...

But then,let us fast forward at 6.50pm...toilet full and people waiting,same situation like above.The only difference is this time,they're not shouting for their right!!!...they seems calm enough this time.Looks like be punctual in their 'meeting' with Allah is not important enough as attending lectures.

In students context,attending lectures are obligatory.But in general context,all muslim are obligatory to perform solat as early as possible.Thus,students are obligatory to attend lectures and perform solat as punctual as possible.Simple right???...Then why do we put high priority on attending lectures then solat???...afraid of the lecturer?...don't we afraid to HIM???

Let us put our thought together on this issue...

Akhirulkalam...

29 April 2011

Alang-alang dah ade...


Assalamualaikum W.B.T...

Alhamdulillah,kesempatan kelapangan masa yang dikurniakan Allah sedikit-sebanyak dapat ana gunakan untuk menulis di sini.Baik,apa yang dimaksudkan dengan "dah ade" kat atas tu?....Apa yang cube ana sampaikan,"dah ade" itu bermaksud "Initiator" atau "titik permulaan"(macam gambar sparks kat atas tu).Jom kita hayati sikit apa maksud titik permulaan ni...

Antara situasi yang ana ingin bawakan:-

1.Kita ke rumah sedara-mara atau kawan2,kemudian dihidangkan makanan(biasa la tu kan?)...Perkara yang kita x sedar...Mula-mula kita x rasa lapar pun,tapi bila rezeki dah depan mate...nafsu makan mula la datang...

2.Kita ke bilik air untuk mandi(khasnya bilik air yang shower dan tempat buang air di tempat yang sama)...asalnya tujuan kita nak mandi je,tapi bile dah ade depan mate...kita mula rase nak buang air besar atau kecil...

3.Kita pergi ke shopping complex,tujuan asal nak cari kotak tisu je...tapi dah macam2 ade kat situ...sedar2 kita dah amik troli(penuh plak tu)...walaupun sebenarnya bende tu bukan keperluan,tapi lebih kepada kehendak...

Perkara sama jugak yang berlaku kepada remaja sekarang ni.Dari mana datang budaya couple ni?ia bermula bila salah seorang membuka jalan,yang lelaki atau yg pompuan.Ianya satu lumrah lelaki tertarik kepada pompuan dan sebaliknya...Namun yang x lumrahnya ialah budaya couple.Contoh...bile ade laki yang cube try untuk merapati seorang pompuan dan yang pompuan ni pun merelakan untuk mereka berkawan rapat...maka mulalah drama "Cinta Sepenuh Hati"~~~...Tapi apa akan berlaku jika yang pompuan tadi buat x endah je?...biasenye keadaan akan kembali normal...Hanya wujud perasaan minat kepada seseorang,bukan cinta kepada seseorang...begitu jugalah dengan keadaan bila ade pompuan cuba merapati lelaki.(Vice versa)

Perasaan minat itu satu keperluan kita sebagai gender yang berlainan,namun perasaan ingin bercinta sebelum kahwin itu adalah kehendak,bukan lagi keperluan.Kebanyakan kita merasakan bercinta sebelum kahwin itu keperluan sebab kawan2 kita sume dah couple...kita bile lagi?Itu yang x betul...jangan kita terikut dengan persekitaran sebegitu...Percayalah dan berpegang teguhlah dengan iman yang telah kita miliki ni...jangan disia-siakan nikmat yang x terhingga ni...

Ke mana mahu disalurkan perasaan minat itu?...Fitrahnya,perasaan minat itu akan bertukar cinta hanya setelah mereka bernikah...Dalam keadaan ini pula...Mulanya yang pompuan tadi x de rase ape2 pun...tapi bile ade orang yang datang meminang dengan cara yang baik dan betul,tiba2 perasaan minat itu muncul...Ini baru cara'approach' yang betul...bukan mendekati untuk ber'couple' tapi untuk dinikahi wanita itu...

Harus diingat bukan sume diantara kita menhhadapi situasu seprti di atas,namun ana percaya majoriti akan menghadapinya.Ana memohon maaf jika ada sebarang kesilapan dalam artikel yang ditulis di atas...:-)

Akhirulkalam...

23 April 2011

Khutbah Bahasa Arab...


Assalamualaikum W.B.T

Alhamdulillah,masih diberi kekuatan untuk menulis di sini.Kali ini ana nak menceritakan sedikit pengalaman yang ana dapat semalam,pengalaman yang cukup berharga apabila diberi kesempatan untuk mendengar khutbah jumaat yang disampaikan oleh Sheikh Sudais(Imam makkah) di masjid Wilayah Persekutuan.Buat pengetahuan anda,khutbah disampaikan dalam bahasa arab(konfem2 la...),usai solat jumaat,ada penterjemah yang menerangkan intipati khutbah beliau.

Daripada apa yang ana faham dr Khutbah yang disampaikan:-

1.Kita x menjadikan isu khilaf memecah-belahkan umat.Sebab sekarang ni byk perkara khilaf yang remeh,sepatutnya boleh diselesaikan dgn mudah...namun kerana harga diri dan pangkat, masing2 ingin mempertahankan pendapat masing2.Dek kerana itu,khilaf tentang perkara sunat pun kadang2 membawa kepada terjejasnya perkara wajib...

2.Sheikh menggesa kita untuk belajar bahasa arab.Kerana itu adalah medium yang terbaik untuk kita memahami al-Quran dengan lebih mendalam dan efektif.Moga dengan itu kita dapat mempraktikkan amalan seharian kita sejajar dengan tuntutan Allah dalam al-Quran.

Yg laen ana x faham dah...setekat tu je yang mampu.Mase sesi terjemah banyak juga point lain yang diketengahkan,namun ana kurang fokus ketika itu...asif..

Namun yang menariknya,situasi selepas solat.Ketika di luar,ana terdengar perbualan segelintir jemaah.Kata mereka,"khutbah dalam bahasa arab,tapi x mengantuk pun.(walaupun x faham)Tapi kalau khutbah dalam bahasa melayu,faham, tapi mengantuk jugak"....Hmmm,betul jugak.Kemudian salah seorang memberi pendapat"Rasanya sebab intonasi die,die x cakap mendatar je...penuh bersemangat"...Ya,ana bersetuju.Kalau kita lihat khutbah kat Malaysia ni,boleh dikatakan hampir seluruh Malaysia intonasi khutbah same je memanjang.Walaupun ustaz tu kalau bagi ceramah lain gayanya...bile bagi khutbah sama je dgn yang lain....Adakah ini protokol?...kerana setahu ana,tidak ada pula dalam syarat khutbah perlu sedemikian rupa(Minta betulkan ana kalau tersilap)...mari kita fikir-fikirkan...

Akhirulkalam....

22 April 2011

3 reasons why we should couple!!!


Assalamualaikum W.B.T...

Alhamdulillah,finally had some time to spent on my blog.This time,it's gonna be something different.Teens especially are very obsess in this one kind of 'thing' called COUPLE.So,I'm here to support you guys.Interesting isn't it?People are hoaxing around saying we can't couple.Why is that so?Say what,I'm against it this time...here are some reasons why we SHOULD couple:-.....:-)

1.Our partner could be a place for us to share our sweet moments together...so sweet~~~
Yeah right!Like we don't have any other person to do that so...Forget about our mother,father,siblings,friends???

2.We can make our pictures more happening with him/her besides us,instead of being alone...:-(
Really?Didn't we think those picture soon will create lot of problems?taking picture with non-mahram in close contact...masyaAllah

3.He/She can calm us down when we face any calamities
Have We lost our hand to pray to Allah...or we have give it to our partner,since we've been willingly giving even our soul to him/her...

There's actually a lot more,but I can't help it to write it all...

The main reasons behind this 'coupling' scenario is that,We feel like we're not being love enough.But,do we realise we're being love ULTIMATELY?But suprisingly,most of the time,we're not being love when we feel happy,but when there's calamities fall upon us.When the scale of calamities are bigger,it doesn't mean we're useless or else...yet it's to show we're being love more.Perhaps with those calamities upon us will raise up our faith towards HIM.

The best person are those who are able to smile when he/she is facing any problems,no matter how big it is...and coupling is not one of the solution!

And for those that can't help to avoid this coupling 'thing'...Islam have give a way for us.Find a way to get married if it's already fall under category of Wajib or Harus...

Forgive me for any of my wrongdoings...

Akhirulkalam...

10 April 2011

Bless from Allah...


Assalamualaikum W.B.T,

Alhamdulillah,Allah has give an opportunity for me to keep writing here to bring some wisdom that some of us might not think of it.Sometimes we never know what Allah has plan for us,all we can do is just keep on trying and tawakkal at the end of it.When somethings really bad happen to us,we use to blame anything arround us just to make our heart feel calm...But,why don't we take it as Allah test upon us,to increase our Iman towards Him???

al-Baqarah(155-157)

What I want to share with you guys is one blessing that Allah has bestowed upon us,but sometimes we take it for granted.It is FAMILY.What I meant by family here is not just father,mother,son,daughter and so on...but it's all about one big family including brothers and sisters of our parents,cousin,etc.One big family.

It's such a sweet things,whenever any calamity drop upon anyone of us...then comes our uncle and auntie families supporting us from back.For example,if Allah has stated we'll gonna lose our parents at any one time...those big family will try to comfort us by cheering us up,make the house live up again rather than keep on 'sorrowing'...they'll try to stay with us as long as they can.

Yes it's true not every family acted upon that way,that's why Allah created varieties in each things in this world.But generally,that's how it will work.Kindness of Allah is superb,He take something from us but then He will give other thing to make it right. Recently,me myself has been tested with such a great calamity,but then Allah send me a little gift,that make my heart sooth a little bit at least...Maybe this initial small gift will someday bring a great impact in my future life.InsyaAllah...

Lastly,do appreciate what we have now.Remember that every things that we have now are all from Allah.Do good to our parents when Allah give us chance to be with them,until Allah choose to take them back ,or it will be us that will meet Allah first.InsyaAllah,may this piece of words might bring benefit to us in this life and hereafter...

Akhirulkalam